Choose Your Crystal, Choose Your Orgasm Choose Your Crystal, Choose Your Orgasm

Choose Your Crystal, Choose Your Orgasm


Just as you might experience different orgasms based on whether you’re alone, partnered, in a hurry, taking your time, and many other variables, you might also find that your orgasms vary depending on what crystal you use.

Every crystal has its own metaphysical properties that result in it emitting a certain frequency of energy. The experience of getting off with a rose quartz Chakrub is going to feel different than with a Chakrub from The Shadow Line, made with pure black obsidian crystal.

Depending on what feelings you are craving in your sex life right now, it can be helpful to understand how the properties of different crystals could influence your experience.

In this guide, we have broken down each crystal from Chakrubs to help you choose your orgasm with intentional crystal energy:

Clear Quartz

Clear Quartz is known as the master healer stone. It is the most adaptable of all crystals and the best option if you’re seeking a specific experience that only you can articulate. It is also known for encouraging positive perceptions and mental clarity.

How to work with it: It’s best to program this stone with a specific intention prior to use and make sure you’re in a clear head space as well. Quartz has a tendency to amplify your existing energies. Clear quartz will often bring you to clarity post-orgasm on the intention you originally imbued it with. Your intuition will always show up for you when you need it the most.

Favorite Chakrub products: The Prism Line

Rose Quartz

rose quartz pleasure wand

Rose quartz infuses love and beauty into every environment and situation. It is most beneficial if you are healing from a break up or struggling with feelings of unworthiness or self-judgment. Often when our hearts are hurting our sex drive suffers as a result. Rose quartz will gently open you up to self-love while enhancing confidence and self-compassion.

How to work with it: If you want to attract love into your life, begin to imagine what this love would look and feel like and how your new lover will treat you. Transfer this vision into the crystal before you begin playing with it. For maximum effectiveness, hold this visualization in your mind as you reach climax. Bask in the love you have for yourself.

Favorite Chakrub products: The Heart Line

Smoky Quartz

smoky quartz breast massager

Smoky Quartz is known as the stone of power. It brings a grounding presence with its earthy, mineral energy that helps root you in confidence and wisdom. Smoky quartz is also known to assist in clarifying dreams or visions that you may have, making it a wise crystal companion to form a relationship with.

How to work with it: Imagine your root connecting to the earth as you work with Smoky Quartz. Allow the stone’s energy to reground you to your inner truth. As you reach orgasm, hold the visual of a light beam radiating from your body, through the crystal, and into the center of the earth. You held the power inside of you all along.

Favorite Chakrub products: The Smoky Quartz Line

Black Obsidian

Black Obsidian can be used to reveal hidden elements about yourself, hence why it is the stone of choice for The Shadow Line. Its energy is not as gentle as rose quartz, but if you find yourself blocked in the bedroom and can’t figure out the cause, Black Obsidian can help. It lends protective qualities as you delve into shadow work and can also be used to overcome past traumas.

How to work with it: Pay attention to any visuals that come to mind while meditating with this stone and during use. Try your best to bring your body to an open, non-judgmental state of surrender while you use this stone. Expect it to bring up triggers, uncomfortable truths, and a powerful release at climax.

Favorite Chakrub products: The Shadow Line


Amethyst can be used for expansive, transformative sexual experiences. It is common to find yourself traveling to other realms or having an out-of-body experience while interacting with this stone. You can also use this stone for identifying and releasing bad habits, tapping into your spiritual eye, and entering the dream realm during orgasm.

How to work with it: It is important to ground and center prior and after using this crystal due to its dreamy and spiritual nature. Amethyst works best when it feels honored, respected, and trusted. Allow it to show you visuals, take your body to other places, and cleanse your chakra system from crown to root.

Favorite Chakrub products: The Amethyst Line

Green Aventurine

Green aventurine is known as the stone of opportunity, and this magical stone will infuse a sense of optimism and joy into your sensual play. It can also be used to attract abundance, whether in love, finances, or any other area of your life you feel is lacking.

How to work with it: Focus on what you want to manifest as energy builds and imagine that it is already yours. If masturbation intimidates you or you have a hard time getting out of your head, Green Aventurine can help you return to the present moment and release expectations.

Favorite Chakrub products: The Indian Jade Line

White Jasper

White jasper holds a purity that will remind you of your own divinity. If you are looking to release harmful attitudes or experiences, White Jasper can assist in purifying your mind of that which no longer serves you. It is a nurturing stone that allows you to see aspects of yourself, such as your inner mother, with more tenderness and care.

How to work with it: Orgasms with this crystal may connect you to higher consciousness and help you achieve wholeness in mind, body, and spirit. For those who have experienced sexual trauma and would like to begin a new relationship to themselves, White Jasper can help rewrite your sexual story and redefine virginity as it pertains to you.

Favorite Chakrub products: The Rabbit Jade Line

Orange Aventurine

Orange aventurine encourages optimism and opportunity as well as a spirit of perseverance. It can increase confidence if you struggle with low self-esteem and enhance creativity. This is an ideal crystal if you need to release blockages in your sacral area and want to harness sexual energy for creativity.

How to work with it: Use this stone for releasing past traumas and restoring a sense of independence. A morning session with this Chakrub prior to beginning work will invigorate your day and put you in a positive mood.

Favorite Chakrub products: The Sacral Line


Rhodonite is a naturally supportive stone that helps one achieve their highest potential. By stimulating the heart chakra, it allows emotional wounds to be processed and cleared. It also protects against tendencies of self-destruction, codependency, and abuse.

How to work with it: Place Rhodonite right over your heart space prior to use. Allow its energy to penetrate your body from the heart and work its way down. When you orgasm with this stone, repeat a loving mantra of your choosing to assist in its efforts to open your heart.

Favorite Chakrub products: The Anahata Line


If you already have a Chakrub, let us know in the comments how your experiences match up to what we’ve shared here.


Feature Image by Heather Reese

Original article written by Danielle Dorsey. Updated by Julianna Carbonare on April 18th, 2022.

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