We talk about manifestation all the time – usually in the context of bringing something external into our lives. It’s about wanting that perfect job, an incredible relationship, or even financial abundance. But what if we shifted that idea of manifestation toward something more personal, something internal? Imagine using that same intentional energy to connect more deeply with your own pleasure.
Manifesting orgasms isn’t about expecting an instant, magical experience. It’s about reconnecting with the parts of ourselves that might need a little more attention, a little more care. Through this practice, we might find ourselves uncovering emotional or physical barriers that keep us from fully experiencing pleasure. It’s not about “getting there” right away – it’s about making space for whatever we find.
When we bring intention into our pleasure practice, we’re choosing to explore whatever shows up. That process, that willingness to see what’s really there, can be powerful in itself.
Discovering Blocks through Manifestation
Here’s the thing about manifestation – it doesn’t always work in the “magic trick” way we might imagine. Say you’re manifesting abundance. Sometimes that means a random check appears in the mail, sure, but more often, it shows up as an opportunity, like a new job or collaboration. It’s not just about receiving; it’s also about noticing what’s being offered to you – and then taking the steps to make it real.
Manifesting orgasms works similarly. This practice isn’t about trying to make orgasm happen instantly; it’s about becoming aware of anything that might be holding you back from fully connecting with yourself. Just as manifestation reveals what we need to pay attention to in order to receive what we want, manifesting orgasms can help us tune into our body and soul, revealing areas that might be asking for our attention.
Some of these blocks are emotional – old beliefs around pleasure or negative feelings about our bodies. Others are physical – tightness or tension that can come from stress or simply not feeling fully safe to relax.
Types of Blocks
Emotional blocks can feel like shame, fear, or even guilt around pleasure. Maybe there’s a part of you that feels undeserving, or maybe it’s difficult to let yourself go. Becoming aware of these thoughts is the first step toward letting them go, making room for pleasure to feel safe and natural.
Physical blocks can be more subtle – the way our bodies hold tension, the protective ways we carry ourselves. These may show up as tightness in the pelvic area or an inability to fully relax. By bringing gentle awareness to these areas, perhaps through breath or soft touch, we invite the body to start releasing.
Manifesting orgasms is a discovery process. It’s about bringing these blocks into the light without forcing them away. Each step is part of a journey that opens us up to deeper levels of pleasure.
A Solo Ritual for Manifesting Orgasms with a Chakrub
This ritual is designed to help you cultivate an openness to experiencing pleasure. The goal isn’t orgasm itself – it’s creating an intentional, safe environment that invites possibility.
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Set an Intention: Begin by holding your Chakrub and taking a few grounding breaths. Set a soft intention, like “I am open to receiving pleasure” or “I release any blocks to my body’s natural joy.” There’s no need to push anything – simply invite the energy of these words.
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Visualize the Experience: As you start to use your Chakrub, close your eyes and imagine what it would feel like to reach a state of deep pleasure. How would your body move? What sounds would you make? Go ahead and invite yourself to try these, creating the space in your body to explore how orgasm may manifest in these ways.
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Use Affirmations for Openness: Let affirmations guide you as you go, like “My orgasms are healing and expansive” or “I allow myself to feel fully and freely.” These aren’t demands on your body, but gentle invitations, reminders that you are safe and welcome in your pleasure. Make sure to make your affirmation your own.
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Observe Any Blocks: Notice any sensations, thoughts, or emotions that arise. If you feel resistance or discomfort, let it be part of the experience – observe it without judgment. Acknowledging these feelings is a way of letting them surface and soften over time.
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Close the Ritual: When you feel ready, place your hands over your heart and take a few deep breaths. Offer gratitude for the space you’ve created and for any insights that surfaced. Each time you return to this ritual, you’re strengthening a connection with yourself that deepens over time.
Using Orgasms to Manifest Beyond Pleasure
Orgasms are powerful - they are not just about physical release but can also carry energy, intention, and even transformation. When we open ourselves to orgasm, we’re working with an incredible amount of energy that can ripple out into other areas of our lives.
Here are some ways to use that energy to manifest qualities that go beyond the bedroom:
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Confidence: Imagine the energy of orgasm spreading through your whole being, filling you with a deep sense of self-assurance. Let this confidence carry into your daily life, into your work, your relationships, and the way you show up for yourself.
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Intuition: Orgasms can bring us closer to our inner knowing, heightening our sensitivity to the subtle signals within us. As you experience this energy, set an intention to be more in tune with your intuition, to trust the guidance that comes from within.
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Creativity: Use the energy of orgasm to fuel your creative pursuits. After your experience, sit with the sensations still buzzing through you, and let them inspire new ideas or projects. Imagine this energy flowing into whatever you’re creating.
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Inner Peace: Allow the energy of orgasm to settle into a place of calm. Envision it bringing you a sense of stillness and balance, a reminder that you are connected to something larger and that pleasure can be a source of tranquility.
Manifesting orgasms is ultimately about creating a life filled with intention, connection, and joy. With each practice, you are learning to harness the energy of pleasure as something transformative, something that nourishes you from within.
